happened to a friend of mine, he was a NEET living with his father, his dad literally burned all his notebooks as an ultimatum to "make him get a real job".
>How exactly would that help?
Bullying and parental abuse build character. If you are too weak-minded to properly respond to your parents telling you to grow up and get a damn job, maybe you don't deserve to live in the first place.
>Bullying and parental abuse build character
What kind of character?
> t. sociopath trying to justify their shit behavior
If you feel overly depressed because your parents tell you to get a job and your stuff gets thrown away, and as a result you become sociopaths, mass shooters, etc., then you're weak-minded and need serious psychological help.
>parental abuse build character.
Too bad parents don't like it when you grown a spine and start to be mouthy towards them. The will still complain if you break down into a doormat, so you might as well become a colossal asshole and give them a taste of their own medicine. >have difficulty in uni, gets berated by parents for being a lazy student. >grow tired of their shit and starts to mock them for being high school dropouts. >dad yells at me when I lose my temp job for yelling at my boss. >Dad gets assbalsed when I tell him I don't value his opinion on it.
After behaving like this towards them for a while, they literally stop their yelling and lecturing. Even when I do something that they would berate me for before, now they just sigh and say nothing. good riddance.
https://i.imgur.com/1HP3IEI.png
Ignore him and keep drawing more?
If you let others dictate what you can and cannot do with your time then you're a homosexual. Impose some fucking boundaries for fuck sake.
Parents that do this usually end up having horrible relationships with their kids that results in constant arguing, physical fights, or just cutting them off fully once they get out the house.
as for OP's pic, it looks like something that takes place in japan. So there's a chance whoever he's talking to wasnt a NEET and just really liked drawing, or was getting good enough to make a career from it, but it wasn't the path the father wanted so he chucked all their shit.
That's literally what happened to me. Ended up moving in with my mother instead. I now make a bit less than minimum wage doing commissions. Still a hikikomori though.
>burned all his notebooks as an ultimatum to "make him get a real job".
BASED
But it also would have been based if later in life the NEET homosexual put his dad on a decrepit asylum so the nurses could burn cigarette butts on his forehead.
Now that would have been based AND funny.
Hilariously, I've seen irl parents who initially begin with that "get a job" attitude and then change their minds once they learn they won't get any of their son's money.
Plenty of mothers who treat their kids as a retirement fund.
If the bitch had done that to me I would have slit his throat that very same night.
Then I'd happily continue in my solitary cell, painting the walls with my own shit
If you are just copying the same anime girls without direction or variation,then one must expect scorn from anyone,let alone parents. But if you have a method to your particular brand of madness,then you can convince your folks that they would be wise to continue housing and feeding you because like any other investment,its fruits will be harvested in time.
>tfw my parents enable and support me drawing childlike scribbles all day >tfw I can tell mom about commissions being slow and being bummed out about it and she is supportive >tfw I use my commission money to pay family expenses and my father thanks me
Granted, this is all because Im making a profit and career out of my art and because Im not a total NEETo outside of ot, but still, gotta count my blessings...
Ignore him and keep drawing more?
If you let others dictate what you can and cannot do with your time then you're a homosexual. Impose some fucking boundaries for fuck sake.
Frankly though? It is an abuse of trust, he shouldn't throw away your things, just as you wouldn't throw away his, but his heart is in the right place. He did that because he loves you, wants the best for you and he understands that most humans are adaptable enough to learn how to enjoy any reasonable job - focusing on "muh passion" is a grave mistake. So the only reasonable response would be talking it over and then thanking him for it, for being there for you.
>How does one be a happy miserable prick working at a boring corporate job when your passion gets the meager breadcrumbs of your time and energy
Boring corporate job is better than not having any job at all because you tried to "make it as an artist", Anon. It's not that complicated.
Tough love only works when you remember the love part. Breaking a person down and never putting them back together will leave you with a broken mess.
I've experienced something similar to the OP. My work wasn't thrown away outright, but I got a lot of exasperated comments about my artwork, disparaging criticism, insistence that I stop altogether, in addition to a long list of my faults and errors being drudged up on a regular basis. I ended up in the tech field and make decent money, but I am also an emotional wreck who spends most of his time alone and is addicted to Wyato.
This is not to say dreams shouldn't be thempered with practicality, but that using the hammer too much can break the machine you're trying to fix.
>I ended up in the tech field and make decent money, but I am also an emotional wreck who spends most of his time alone and is addicted to Wyato.
Well, I tried to follow my passion and I failed miserably. Despite being over 30 I have no stable income, I can't afford health insurance and I'm still a parasite living off my parents. Just as you I'm an emotional wreck addicted to Wyato, but without any money. I'd trade places with you in a heartbeat if I could.
I'm sorry, but in my eyes your story only proved that my original statement was correct - you're making decent money, you can afford healthcare and, once you'll figure out your emotional side of things, you probably could start a family and reproduce. That's a successful life.
>Well, I tried to follow my passion and I failed miserably
You provided no reason to believe that this single failure is the cause of your problems.
>You provided no reason to believe that this single failure is the cause of your problems.
That's true. I assumed that since I'm an expert on the subject of my life, then my opinion would be enough to say that was the main issue. But if you guys don't find that convincing then read a book "Don't Follow Your Passion" by Cal Newport. I'm sure you'll find it more interesting than a life story of some random guy you're happy to judge as insane based on few anonymous posts.
Wherever you live, look up the avg income. Look up birth rates. Hoe many ppl own houses etc. Even people who make what you deem as 'decent' isn't decent because of things like inflation. The absolute state of culture in some places in shambles. You took a shot while many took a safe option, yet aren't even given what is promised.
>Well, I tried to follow my passion and I failed miserably. Despite being over 30 I have no stable income, I can't afford health insurance and I'm still a parasite living off my parents. Just as you I'm an emotional wreck addicted to Wyato, but without any money.
I didn't know Wyato had a time machine function, but here I am responding to myself, seven years younger.
None of what you just said is foreign to me. I got saddled with a house's worth of student debt from trying to achieve my own dream, and I've been waist deep in regret since. So seeing this: >I'd trade places with you in a heartbeat if I could.
Is funny to me.
Please forgive me, for I'm about to blog:
My flavor of guilt and shame drove me toward an obsessively revaluate my life and do everything in my power to be a better, more valuable person. I practically became a robot in my attempts at being a good and obedient boy for my folks, dropping all of my wants, desires, interests, hopes, dreams, values...anything to regain some sense of good in my life, maybe even some straightforward affection from the family.
Unfortunately, it turns out that becoming the perfect man doesn't actually solve all your problems. Becoming a hollow shell did give me some standing and traction in life, but that psychic self torture eventually got me a case of depression so bad that it knocked me on my back for 2 years.
During that time, I eventually came back to art. I came back and found that in giving it up, I really didn't gain anything. Despite my effort, I still felt like I fell short of expectations, and my efforts were only sparsely recognized. I was a better man, but nobody cared. Life didn't have the spark, with most days just my brain playing out how I could have done better on repeat.
I here where you're coming from and would have agreed once upon a time. But it turns out feelings really do matter sometimes.
>My flavor of guilt and shame drove me to obsessively revaluate my life...
All that text just to be an ESL-tier error on the word go. There's other mishaps in there too, but that first line was to egregious to leave alone.
>It's rude to just ignore someone when they talk to you
So? If you let others walk all over you out of fear of being perceived as "rude" then you deserve to be walked on.
Frankly though? It is an abuse of trust, he shouldn't throw away your things, just as you wouldn't throw away his, but his heart is in the right place. He did that because he loves you, wants the best for you and he understands that most humans are adaptable enough to learn how to enjoy any reasonable job - focusing on "muh passion" is a grave mistake. So the only reasonable response would be talking it over and then thanking him for it, for being there for you.
Anon please keep responding, I'm masturbating while reading your posts.
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>"tongue my anus, nagger"
that's just you relieving your suppressed fantasy out loud
happened to a friend of mine, he was a NEET living with his father, his dad literally burned all his notebooks as an ultimatum to "make him get a real job".
DId it work?
He tried to kill himself afterwards & failed, i haven't talked to him in years so i have no idea where he's at in life.
Probably ended up doing it
>killing himself
>not killing his bitch father
Beta naggers, seriously?
How exactly would that help? If anything it would make him more of a useless NEET but this time worse
>How exactly would that help?
Bullying and parental abuse build character. If you are too weak-minded to properly respond to your parents telling you to grow up and get a damn job, maybe you don't deserve to live in the first place.
Thats how murderers with mental problems are born shithead.
>implying most successful CEOs aren't sociopaths
If you feel overly depressed because your parents tell you to get a job and your stuff gets thrown away, and as a result you become sociopaths, mass shooters, etc., then you're weak-minded and need serious psychological help.
If they had a good family they wouldn't need therapy.
>Bullying and parental abuse build character
What kind of character?
> t. sociopath trying to justify their shit behavior
>parental abuse build character.
Too bad parents don't like it when you grown a spine and start to be mouthy towards them. The will still complain if you break down into a doormat, so you might as well become a colossal asshole and give them a taste of their own medicine.
>have difficulty in uni, gets berated by parents for being a lazy student.
>grow tired of their shit and starts to mock them for being high school dropouts.
>dad yells at me when I lose my temp job for yelling at my boss.
>Dad gets assbalsed when I tell him I don't value his opinion on it.
After behaving like this towards them for a while, they literally stop their yelling and lecturing. Even when I do something that they would berate me for before, now they just sigh and say nothing. good riddance.
basically this.
>Bullying and parental abuse build character.
Parents that do this usually end up having horrible relationships with their kids that results in constant arguing, physical fights, or just cutting them off fully once they get out the house.
as for OP's pic, it looks like something that takes place in japan. So there's a chance whoever he's talking to wasnt a NEET and just really liked drawing, or was getting good enough to make a career from it, but it wasn't the path the father wanted so he chucked all their shit.
That's literally what happened to me. Ended up moving in with my mother instead. I now make a bit less than minimum wage doing commissions. Still a hikikomori though.
> gets a "real" job
> sends dad to a retirement home and proceeds to ignore him for the rest of his life
>burned all his notebooks as an ultimatum to "make him get a real job".
BASED
But it also would have been based if later in life the NEET homosexual put his dad on a decrepit asylum so the nurses could burn cigarette butts on his forehead.
Now that would have been based AND funny.
Hilariously, I've seen irl parents who initially begin with that "get a job" attitude and then change their minds once they learn they won't get any of their son's money.
Plenty of mothers who treat their kids as a retirement fund.
If the bitch had done that to me I would have slit his throat that very same night.
Then I'd happily continue in my solitary cell, painting the walls with my own shit
draw him as a basedjack, draw me as a chad; that'll show him.
A parent respects a game plan.
If you are just copying the same anime girls without direction or variation,then one must expect scorn from anyone,let alone parents. But if you have a method to your particular brand of madness,then you can convince your folks that they would be wise to continue housing and feeding you because like any other investment,its fruits will be harvested in time.
>tfw my parents enable and support me drawing childlike scribbles all day
>tfw I can tell mom about commissions being slow and being bummed out about it and she is supportive
>tfw I use my commission money to pay family expenses and my father thanks me
Granted, this is all because Im making a profit and career out of my art and because Im not a total NEETo outside of ot, but still, gotta count my blessings...
Stop describing my life.
Ignore him and keep drawing more?
If you let others dictate what you can and cannot do with your time then you're a homosexual. Impose some fucking boundaries for fuck sake.
Throw away his stuff in retaliation, obviously.
Frankly though? It is an abuse of trust, he shouldn't throw away your things, just as you wouldn't throw away his, but his heart is in the right place. He did that because he loves you, wants the best for you and he understands that most humans are adaptable enough to learn how to enjoy any reasonable job - focusing on "muh passion" is a grave mistake. So the only reasonable response would be talking it over and then thanking him for it, for being there for you.
Holy shit it's you
it's not wrong. you can be an unhappy miserable prick, that's your choice
How does one be a happy miserable prick working at a boring corporate job when your passion gets the meager breadcrumbs of your time and energy
>How does one be a happy miserable prick working at a boring corporate job when your passion gets the meager breadcrumbs of your time and energy
Boring corporate job is better than not having any job at all because you tried to "make it as an artist", Anon. It's not that complicated.
You can easily do both, it's not that complicated.
This is the most retarded mentality one can have, holy shit
Tough love only works when you remember the love part. Breaking a person down and never putting them back together will leave you with a broken mess.
I've experienced something similar to the OP. My work wasn't thrown away outright, but I got a lot of exasperated comments about my artwork, disparaging criticism, insistence that I stop altogether, in addition to a long list of my faults and errors being drudged up on a regular basis. I ended up in the tech field and make decent money, but I am also an emotional wreck who spends most of his time alone and is addicted to Wyato.
This is not to say dreams shouldn't be thempered with practicality, but that using the hammer too much can break the machine you're trying to fix.
>I ended up in the tech field and make decent money, but I am also an emotional wreck who spends most of his time alone and is addicted to Wyato.
Well, I tried to follow my passion and I failed miserably. Despite being over 30 I have no stable income, I can't afford health insurance and I'm still a parasite living off my parents. Just as you I'm an emotional wreck addicted to Wyato, but without any money. I'd trade places with you in a heartbeat if I could.
I'm sorry, but in my eyes your story only proved that my original statement was correct - you're making decent money, you can afford healthcare and, once you'll figure out your emotional side of things, you probably could start a family and reproduce. That's a successful life.
>Well, I tried to follow my passion and I failed miserably
You provided no reason to believe that this single failure is the cause of your problems.
Are you sure it's your hobby that made you fail? You sould mentally ill, could that have something to do with it?
>You provided no reason to believe that this single failure is the cause of your problems.
That's true. I assumed that since I'm an expert on the subject of my life, then my opinion would be enough to say that was the main issue. But if you guys don't find that convincing then read a book "Don't Follow Your Passion" by Cal Newport. I'm sure you'll find it more interesting than a life story of some random guy you're happy to judge as insane based on few anonymous posts.
I'm not reading a book made by a israelite piece of trash trying to demoralize me and abandon my dreams. TKD.
Wherever you live, look up the avg income. Look up birth rates. Hoe many ppl own houses etc. Even people who make what you deem as 'decent' isn't decent because of things like inflation. The absolute state of culture in some places in shambles. You took a shot while many took a safe option, yet aren't even given what is promised.
>Well, I tried to follow my passion and I failed miserably. Despite being over 30 I have no stable income, I can't afford health insurance and I'm still a parasite living off my parents. Just as you I'm an emotional wreck addicted to Wyato, but without any money.
I didn't know Wyato had a time machine function, but here I am responding to myself, seven years younger.
None of what you just said is foreign to me. I got saddled with a house's worth of student debt from trying to achieve my own dream, and I've been waist deep in regret since. So seeing this:
>I'd trade places with you in a heartbeat if I could.
Is funny to me.
Please forgive me, for I'm about to blog:
My flavor of guilt and shame drove me toward an obsessively revaluate my life and do everything in my power to be a better, more valuable person. I practically became a robot in my attempts at being a good and obedient boy for my folks, dropping all of my wants, desires, interests, hopes, dreams, values...anything to regain some sense of good in my life, maybe even some straightforward affection from the family.
Unfortunately, it turns out that becoming the perfect man doesn't actually solve all your problems. Becoming a hollow shell did give me some standing and traction in life, but that psychic self torture eventually got me a case of depression so bad that it knocked me on my back for 2 years.
During that time, I eventually came back to art. I came back and found that in giving it up, I really didn't gain anything. Despite my effort, I still felt like I fell short of expectations, and my efforts were only sparsely recognized. I was a better man, but nobody cared. Life didn't have the spark, with most days just my brain playing out how I could have done better on repeat.
I here where you're coming from and would have agreed once upon a time. But it turns out feelings really do matter sometimes.
>My flavor of guilt and shame drove me to obsessively revaluate my life...
All that text just to be an ESL-tier error on the word go. There's other mishaps in there too, but that first line was to egregious to leave alone.
Bite his eye
>I've thrown away everything that's useless.
...Implying you kept some? what ones?
mf kept the furry porn
Buy another sketchbook and pencil and tell him to eat shit.
>in this episode Anon learns how talent was just good, supportive family all along
Surprisingly wholesome thread.
not my problem. I'm too busy gaming to draw
No biggie, I can always recreate everything. unlike you who cannot create anything.
I'm not working on a "manga" because I'm not a retarded ass weeboid
How can you not be mad when everyone around you is acting like a retard? If you want to be spoonfed with love and kindess this ain’t the place chief.
>totally not me by the way
I like how you called me a samefag, but didn't call me wrong.
>It's rude to just ignore someone when they talk to you
So? If you let others walk all over you out of fear of being perceived as "rude" then you deserve to be walked on.
Cvck
brn dmg
Anon please keep responding, I'm masturbating while reading your posts.
darn it, just lemme do my thing